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Moments turn into memories so quickly that we often don't even realise it. If every moment could become a core memory, should we strive to make each one count? Or is this the essence of life — navigating through moments, uncertain about which ones will remain etched in our memory? As if every moment isn't already invaluable. Stay inspired. Keep inspiring.  Photo by Maddi Bazzocco on Unsplash Why do you suddenly want to change? What agent of change has provoked you? What does this mean in the long term? What benefits or obstacles might arise upon entering this new phase? What will this commitment require from you, and are you prepared for that toll? Stay inspired. Keep inspiring.  Photo by Chris Lawton on Unsplash It seems that when we have to think of an idea on the fly, they all escape us. But if we give ourselves time, or create a system to capture them when they come, we end up with plenty. So how do we choose? Establishing rules around the outcomes usually helps. Make sure that you act with peace of mind that the idea may not succeed or that you may change your mind in the process. Your act of choosing demonstrates strength. Stay inspired. Keep inspiring.  Photo by David Iskander on Unsplash It is nice to have goals and aspirations. But they don't mean much if they are not wrapped with an action plan and a clear understanding of the benefits, foreseeing obstacles, and enrolling people to become a part of it. If that sounds like too much to do, you don't really want the change. Stay inspired. Keep inspiring.  Photo by Ronnie Overgoor on Unsplash Maintaining focus and persevering daily can be challenging. Sometimes, continuing these daily posts feels like a burden and a chore. Some days, I see no point in persisting. However, on most days, it provides more than a reward. It signifies progress. It represents practice and can even become my single win for the day. Even when I feel like an imposter. Keep the practice alive. Stay inspired. Keep inspiring.  Photo by NIKHIL on Unsplash On a few occasions, I've received negative feedback that I wished had been delivered more subtly. A method that wouldn’t trigger my defenses, but rather, would make me open up and listen. Then, I give myself the harshest critiques and expect myself to listen. I know we all do this, and realise how unfortunate it is. Whenever I catch myself beating myself with an invisible, yet painful stick, I try to find the inner strength to forgive and then turn it around to look for the positives in the situation. We can be our biggest critics or our best cheerleaders. It truly helps to act towards ourselves as we would towards those we love the most. And to learn to love ourselves the most. Stay inspired. Keep inspiring.  Photo by Henry & Co. on Unsplash When noise surrounds us, we drown our own voice. Our truth lies suffocated, and it's only a matter of time until the rest of us begins to break too. For whom are you keeping quiet? For what are you expending your energy? Stay inspired. Keep inspiring.  Photo by @chairulfajar_ on Unsplash Facing the tiger's eye had become a daily routine. She roared back in return, moving forward with conviction. The ability to handle the intense stare, the fear, and the dread, yet act anyway, was a win she celebrated each day. The tiger was her reflection in the mirror, as we are the only ones who truly stand in our own way. Stay inspired. Keep inspiring.  Photo by Alicia Chong on Unsplash Alarm buzzes, eyes flutter, and it’s time for some much-needed social connection. She tried to pry her eyes open a tad more to optimize for peak scroll-efficiency because, hello, it’s already 7:05 am, and she needed a catch-up. A concert happened. Everyone she knew was there. She didn’t recognize the band, but a few storied in and she recognised the tunes. Ah, that damn Spotify should make sure to highlight the artists' names of what obviously was her new favourite band too. How would she otherwise know to be there...? She made a mental note: contemplate a Spotify breakup later. FOMO, in full swing, had her brainstorming Insta-worthy “I-was-there” fakeries. Mid-plot, a cat compilation appeared—absolute watch and reshare material to prove she was, indeed, the epitome of fun. Suddenly, a numb butt alert! Glancing at the time, she sprung from the now warm and cozy yet unyielding toilet seat, darting towards day’s first work call. 9:00 am calls though. Who does that?! Stay inspired. Keep inspiring.  Photo by Kelly Sikkema on Unsplash Navigating away from self-destructive behaviours and maintaining focus is a challenge. Our human DNA inherently houses not just the impulse to create but also to demolish, and often, that destructive journey commences with us before it transfers to others. Exercise patience with yourself and resolve to endure just a few more days to witness the unfolding. If, afterward, you still want out with conviction—great, move on. Alternatively, unearth the magic in your why. Stay inspired. Keep inspiring.  Photo by Kevin Mueller on Unsplash |
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